I think that we should have we ought to have reverence for sex because it is a beautiful and precious thing, but also is a very natural part of life. Do what's true for you. If you're not harming anyone else, like do what is making you happy. I didn't want to talk about it because I'm like, however much sex you're having is normal if you're happy. But there's even, um, in the research, it's been found time and again that when you ask people like how many partners that you had, women round down and men round up. It's really toxic.