Why are they buying at all?

Deals keep slipping through the pipeline? As Q4 pressure builds, many sales teams find themselves pushing deals forward without fully understanding what is stalling them.

Bob Kocis, author of The President’s Club Mindset, joins the episode to share why deals stall and what top performers do differently. 

Drawing from decades of experience in sales technology and executive leadership, Bob shares a practical framework built around three questions that help sales reps regain control of their pipeline and close with confidence.

Meet Bob Kocis

·  Bob Kocis is the President and Chief Operating Officer of Aptean and the author of The President’s Club Mindset: Inside the Winning Strategies of Tech’s Most Successful Salespeople.

·  His career spans senior leadership roles across the tech industry, including Chief Revenue Officer at Continuum Managed Services, Vice President of Worldwide Sales and Customer Excellence at Ansys Inc., and Senior Division Vice President at PTC.

·  Bob is widely recognized for helping organizations build strong sales cultures where top performers thrive, teams navigate complex go-to-market models, and revenue growth becomes predictable through discipline and execution.

The Three Critical Questions to Prevent Slippage

·  Bob introduces a simple but powerful framework centered on three questions every seller and manager should revisit throughout the sales process.

o   First, why is the customer buying anything at all? This requires uncovering the true business problem, not just surface-level interest. Agenda-free listening helps reveal the real motivation behind the deal.

o   Second, why are they buying from us? Sales reps must clearly articulate their unique value and help the customer envision success. This goes beyond features and focuses on meaningful differentiation.

o   Third, why should they buy right now? Without a compelling event, deals drift. Building a mutual action plan creates urgency and gives internal champions a roadmap they can share.

Bob Kocis’s Main Advice

·  Stay curious and keep asking better questions. When deals are grounded in these three fundamentals, forecasting improves, confidence grows, and pipeline slippage becomes the exception rather than the rule.

“I like this idea of agenda-free listening, right? Where you’re really listening intently and you don’t actually have an agenda, so you’re really hearing what they’re saying.” — Bob Kocis

Resources

Get Bob’s book: The President’s Club Mindset 

Connect with Bob Kocis on LinkedIn

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