How to Create Struggle for Your Kids Without Making Them Struggle

I think struggle and hardship, you know, forges the sports, the sportsmen. I'd say there's probably two or three kids in our rugby team that are like talented. Out-and-out athletes don't really need to watch diet, don't need to train that well. They get away with it. And also the majority of rugby players are that guy,. which is hard to understand because when you watch it the weekend, you're like, these guys are amazing. You know, everyone playing international club rugby, you think, amazing athletes, but there's a reason why they look that way... Because they work incredibly hard. That growth mindset about working harder than their opposite