The Limits of the Fuzzy Border

"Be careful be very careful too soft and it's not like you're gonna go be harsh and angry with them that's exactly what this verse is saying not to do but it's saying be strong right Allah has haqul the community has rights" "You see tons of people who got one two and three kids and they're still contributing members. They're benefiting themselvesright so you don't want to be an outlier be in the area where it's understood"