How to Create Goals for Other People in Relationships Around Boundaries

People often self-diagnose with conditions they don't have, she says. But if it's not impacting your life in a particular way, then it doesn't meet criteria for you,. Even when I'm talking about like codependency and a mesh mat, I'm like, is it a problem for you or do you love the codependent relationship? Sometimes what happens is with this type of work, we will see that someone else is being taken advantage of by another person who hasn't stated that they have a problem with it. So can we create goals for other people in their relationships around boundaries around having healthier relationships?