How to Organize a Threesome From a Scarcity Mindset

"Intensity comes from repeated cycles of this process and the natural and very rapid building of rapport," he says. "Don't feel like you have to ramp up the intensity right away." Talk about it openly, the three of you in the group chat,. Everyone should have a clear idea of a number of things that they would like done to them before they arrive that day. Having open conversations is greatly assisted by feeling safe to be vulnerable or articulate what you want.