How Do You Cultivate Competitiveness?

Outter utthereand: How does this competitive spirit apply to me if i don't have or how do i get it? I just never, i just hate t lose. When i wok aat morning, i don't want to lose, and i think people never, i think, i never want to lose. Don't you think that people were born with that naturally? Yes, ut, i thought, but i also, i mean, for people who who are not natural me, i do think that it can be cultivated.