The Ideal of Decoupling in Your Own Head

If you are good at decoupling in your own head, and you decide that the harm it can cause is great enough to not have a discussion, then you don't hear the two conversations. You just like, recognize that there are two conversations, and you, you know, decide not to have one. Or something we run into, we run into a kind of rhetorical difficulty here. Because if you're being affront with with the fact il ask that you think, you think that, well, it's irresponsible to have this discussion a place your sor is unhappyes ma, not you nover. So you can't be open about no such reason. It doesn't, it