The Great Commandment

Soto: How does seclusion either help or hinder the fulfilment of these two commandments? Step onis, i need to know how to love myself in some sense that's good, not just selfish. So learn i to understand what is the truest joy that i have experienced. What are the real pains that i ave experienced that i know are not trivial now that i look back on them? Then i can begin,. i can begin understanding the joys and pains of other people better. I think we have time for one more question, if you're ok with that.