The Importance of Discipline in Dating

" detachment for me is a concept that I've actually learned through a lot of experiences and having to detach when I didn't want to," she said. "If you're pouring your heart into a situation and thinking about a guy and obsessing over him 24 seven and you're not in a serious relationship, you got to cut it out." If you are dating someone who can only make a plan once a week with you and doesn't text you until the day of the plan? That doesn't sound very fun.