The number one fear that human beings have by the way is abandonment. As an adult, when we have this negative idea of ourselves, it will affect our decision-making process. And then it manifests in something we call tolerations. A toleration is something that you have in your life, that you don't like, but you think you have to have it because you either don't know how to change it or you don't think you're worth changing it.
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Each of us holds an “internal image” of ourselves that manifests into the tangible, physical reality of our life. It also manifests into the emotional, spiritual, and psychological process that we experience on a regular basis.
This internal self-image gets formed early in our life, based on what we experienced as a child. The way you see yourself and what you believe about the world comes from how your view yourself and what you believe you’re worth.
Do you believe you’re worth living in an amazing life, overcoming amazing challenges, living in an amazing body (if that’s what they want)? Do you believe you’re worth having unlimited income, building a successful business, having amazing friends and people in your life, and doing fun and exciting things? If so, then you need to create a self-image that reflects that back to you.
We have the power to change our internal self-image—and therefore change our results—if we want to experience something different.
In this episode you’ll learn:
How and why our internal self-image starts to form
How the “consistency of action” our parents took shaped the way we see ourselves—based on how they reacted when we expressed ourselves as children to get our needs met
The subconscious mind is NOT the brain—rather, it’s comprised of every cell of the body; it begins to get programmed at the moment of conception
Everything we listened to, saw, and experienced before the age of 7 was taken in, internalized, and formed into what we believe about ourselves
The #1 fear that human beings have is the fear of abandonment
The 2 core negative beliefs that most people have are—“I’m not worthy of good things,” and “I’m not lovable”
Tolerations are things we don’t want that we allow in our life—because we don’t believe we’re worth changing those things
Plus, I give you an exercise to write a list of everything you want to be, do, and have in life. Then carefully construct an image in your mind of you being, doing, and having those things.
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Part of building an elite mindset is developing the habit and practice of consistently doing things that lead you in the right direction… never taking your foot off the gas, and no longer getting in your own way.
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