What Happens When a Woman Says, Who Hurt You?

When a woman says, who hurt you? She's presuming that the right way to approach the data and everything else that you've just presented to her is from an emotion. So how do i drag him and get him to speak the speak my language? I can't counter any of the stuff that he's saying. But i want him to agree. I want to win. And the way that women have the last word is they drag men from the rational into the emotional. Once you get into that, you're speaking her language. You've just lost the debate.