Radical Friendship

Ritr: The given is that we hurt each other, and what i'm hearing you say is, that's not a problem. What makes it wat kind of grounds for transformation is how we then deal with it. Can we be honest and speak to each other, not from aggression, but as he did just there was a tenderness and a realness? You know, it's like anwe go ahead and hurt each other and rub each other wrong, and find ways to respond that actually into deepening trust. I've been thinking more and more about o, if there's some kind of formal commitment i want to start making with my friends,. Or some kind of ceremony to say