Internal vs External Processing

In this episode of Being Human with Steve Cuss, Steve and Lisa explore how communication styles—rigid vs. fluid, internal vs. external processing, and rapid vs. deliberative thinking—shape relationships, well-being, and spiritual growth. They share personal experiences, unpack how trauma and certainty can impact faith, and revisit recent conversations with Cheryl McKissick (a fifth-generation Black business leader) on family legacy and authenticity in predominantly white spaces; Adam Young on self-awareness, empathy, and spiritual disciplines for healthier connection with others and God; and Clarissa Moll (The Bulletin) in a thoughtful back-and-forth.

Biblical Passages

• Psalm 139 (ESV)

Episode Resources:

• Learn more about the McKissack firm

• Check out Cheryl Mc Kissack Daniel’s website

• Cheryl McKissack Daniel’s The Black Family Who Built America: The McKissacks, Two Centuries of Daring Pioneers

• Adam Young’s Make Sense of Your Story: Why Engaging Your Past with Kindness Changes Everything

• Adam Young’s website

• Adam Young’s The Places We Find Ourselves podcast

More From Clarissa Moll:

• Clarissa Moll’s The Bulletin podcast

• Explore Clarissa Moll’s website

• Read Clarissa Moll’s substack

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