Are You Amenable to Change?

You need to decide what you want and then pursue that. If not, have a conversation with him about how the dynamic between your friendship might change once or if he's ready for someone else. And I think being amenable to change really is something that is underpinning this dilemma a lot. It can be quite difficult transitioning from a friendship into a relationship - especially if it's been mostly, if not entirely platonic. But yeah, I definitely agree with what Courtney said in terms of deciding what you want first and foremost.