Relationship Advice - Is There a Value in a Relationship?

You shouldn't go into any relationship unless you see this person is a value. And if you do, kind of eliminates this problem. If you've had past experiences where you were mistreated in relationships, and you've got some baggage about that, which is also unfortunately, rather common. It could be that you would come into a social relationship feeling various kinds of fear and aversion,. Just because it's similar to something and you haven't sorted that out. The fact that ten thousand men have lied to you is no ground, no grounds for thinking the next one will. So innocent, intill proven, guilty in spades.