What if I Would Be Really Friendly to Myself?

Make decisions based on what i want to do, what i feel like doing, what is true to me. If you make a decision driven by fear or worry, or anxiety, then it's the wrong decision. The other question is, what would really contribute the relationship t to me and myself? And if you ask yourself these two questions, and you take time for it, then, well, not it's not always so that we right away know what is good for us. But we do know what is really wrong. We know it when we are lying. It's the wrong direction. I can talk about this for an hour and a half. I think we, we can't