How Can We Get Around to Toxic Masculinity?

I understand men feeling awkward, because all of a sudden, things that they have done, may be consciously or intentionally, are no longer ok. I think that's totally understandable. And i was hoping that we would get around to social constructs of gender, in particular, masculinity, toxic masculinity and how boys and men can be a part of the solution. Now it's not the solution to sequester ourselves and go hide and play ostrich. Butso i love organizations like a call to men and menturing violence prevention which talk about developing new cultural, healthy norms around what masculinity looks and sounds and can feel like.