What's Your Favorite Community Engagement Tactics?

The author gives out copies of the art of possibility and many copies of the war of art. What's a go to community engagement tactics or conversation starter that you like to use in your communities? Tell me how you got here, what led to you being who we are, or how did you get this job? Or what is it about this that is working for you? The second one is for more intimate communities. What was it like at the dinner table when you were growing up?