How to Make a Whip Spider Really Aggressive?

Female spiders eat the males rather than having sex with them. Black widows use jelly fingers to intimidate other black widows. A whip spider can shave its legs merly, because they are notably third wave feminists and like that kind of thing. Spiders have developed all these ways to combat a male spider who emits an airborn chemical which makes her woozy. And then there's another one which practises bondage. That's someone whois in danger of being eaten by their partner.