Is There Violence Built Into Marriage?

In a domination culture, women are trained that a loving woman has no needs. So the loving wife is basically this martyr who has no needs herself but to do for others. A man gets a similar training, but a little different wrinkle. And in themail case, its brave men have no needs. They're willing to even sacrifice their life in the service of the king. Notice, in both cases, human needs are not nice. They're weak, dependent, selfish, needy, weak sa,. so you've got to maintain a domination culture. You've got to educate people to be disconnected from their needs and to learn all these roles"