The Three Seas of Happiness in a Relationship

You must be with someone who you're sexually and romantically attracted to. But don't prematurely set compatibility standards that narrow your field in such a way that love can't surprise you anymore. As your heart softens and you learn to lead with your true, essential, amazing, unique self, your attractions will begin to shift. They will begin to become more plastic and that's a wave that we truly want to be writing. That's something to be celebrated.