Is the Left a Catch 22?

The obsession with the minor differences between you know sex um when we agree on so much and the enemies are on the march and we're obsessing over trivialities or like what happened a hundred years ago is sad to see. There's also this element as well on the left that i always found of like people with good hearts and good intentions you want more justice but they have sort of characters that are hyper egoic, self-absorbed etc. It may be the result of frustrating at not being able to get enough things that don't affect losing terrain against the opposition  but it's also the cause of why the left is not sufficiently appealing to let's say in this particular case the