There has to be a really big part of ethical responsibility and decisions that are made. It's actually strategically important to your own personal success that you operate that way. Most of my best friends I hated when I first met them mmm talk like they're the same as me right? You can control his insecurities no you can't yeah but what you can do is you can help that leader actually be better by understanding by being smart and understanding that there are some insecurities there, he says.