Love Is Not What You Feel

Love, real, permanent, life transforming love is not what you feel. One of the biggest challenges that many relationships face is that we just do what we feel like doing and in turn we reap whatever that action has brought us. You should never in a billion years, let your feelings in the driver's seat. If you want to have a better relationship, your feelings should be in the car, but they should not be in the driver’s seat. A gape requires faithfulness, commitment and sacrifice, without expecting anything in return. Love consists in this, not that we loved god, but that he loved us and sent his son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins