What Is an Inverse Trauma?

I'm just like really curious about what an inverse trauma is. Like are all traumas like different sides of the same coin and they have to like match up in order for you to like find your soulmate? I love the visual metaphor of it. It's comparable to, you know, attachment styles and how they often seek out the other. If you have an absent parent and the other person had to care take for their parent and like grew up caretaking and you need to be taken care of. For sure. There's no like higher evolution that you need to get to in your healing process. And you're just like in the wrong place.