How to Prioritize and Get Your Wife Figured Out

The single best gift you can give to your kids is not having to move in with them when you retire. Focus on the soft stuff, especially when your kids are young, make sure that you and your spouse are on financial footing. When they buy the first car, tell them that you're only going to pay for half of it. And then as they get their first jobs, don't worry. I think it's very valuable to prime the pump. You help them make that happen by priming the pump.