The Wheel of Consent

The wheel of consent can be a great thing to teach to young people. The basic idea here is, honey, I'd like to touch you in a way that works for you. This kind of work is really what rewired my own sexuality and continues to rewire it because my pattern as a guy was to try to get in there, right, and perform and do it right. And all that shit just bound me up to the point where my body started giving me the message and I started losing my erection. There's hope for all of us, believe me.