Is There a Pattern of Not Being Chosen?

As many times we will be attracted and addicted to similar energy dynamics that were around when we were growing up. Many of you, many of us, may have a worthiness block where we feel either emotionally abandoned or not worthy growing up. And therefore we find somebody that has a certain trama as well, til where we're able to play out a pattern where they're not choosing, and then you are. Then maybe you're repelling with your own energy. So it becomes this like cat and mouse game.