I'm a Siblingan in God's Family

I don't get to make the rules about family, i'm a siblingan in god's family. I am among those gathered to jesus from the outside. There's only one insider, that's god, in christ, welcoming all the outsiders. So i don't set the standards for who else is welcomed. As i said, i am some one being shaped and worked on and transformed by god through other people. Ah, as i said, my friends who are gay, lesbiand trans have already had such a formative and life giving effect on me. And i've seen some of them be such faithful servants to the church and such reliable a members of community. But