The Importance of Effort in Relationships

You shouldn't have to reinvent yourself for somebody to like you or for your ex to take you back that kind of shit. To try and get someone to like you will never work. The only way you can actually do it if they haven't liked you in the end is pretending that you're something that you're not. And I know it's really hard when you've got to crush on someone and it feels like more than a crush, it's unrequited love.