How to Control Your Fear

City loda: Fear and control make us miserable. You have to gently say, sweetheart, that's like one year old baby, like grabbing for for a shotgun over and over. Some of us don't shift because we're afraid of letting go. So all your curiosity has gone. You're all about control. And you may not be able to recognize that for a while. But very soon, you know, in a matter of days, i don't like my life any more. Why? Why does every when will the hurting stop?