The Dilemma of Diapers in Dating

There are two types of diaper fetishists: AB and DL.DL stands for adult baby, while AB means diaper lover. There's another level which I have to imagine. People who are into the infantilization aspect of it right? Like correct being treated like a baby or talk to like a baby. So even if you find someone else who's into diapers, they might be a whole different aspect of diapers than you. It must be very frustrating.