Are You in a Friendship With Your Opposite Sex Friend?

The most famous researcher on this topic has unfortunately been killed in car wreck. She basically says, don't ever, ever ever flirt with your opposite sex friends. Most women who say that they're in a friendship with a guy really are just in a friendship. And so they think, think they're flirting with you, but they're really not taking it seriously. They don't mean anything by it. A more than half the guys in that study admitted that if they could have sex with this woman friend, they would. But at the same time, they usually valued that friendship too much to try to make a move without a clear sign that it would be ok.