i think this happens alike when im, you might be in a meeting with some one. What i found is if you probe a little bit more, and instead of doing that, actually sit down and say, hey, so so how do you think that went? What did you hear? What did they take away? You'll actually buying that. A, that can really lead to a lot of extra work and a lot of back and forth. Ah, so i think, again, taking the time up front not to assume that just because i heard beat back a certain way or i wrote down a certain note, that that's exactly what it is.