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131. How to Raise Untamed Kids with Dr. Becky Kennedy

We Can Do Hard Things

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Why Is My Kid Jumping on the Couch?

Punishment for bad behavior should be added to the antecedent, not taken away. Parents who give consequences and punishments are asking kids to do the job we should be doing. We don't change behavior by inserting a different behavior after - we change behavior by changing the process that would happen before.

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