The fuel for the inner critical voice. How could you not make your parents happy? They're your only chance. And it's so ucmore harsh than your parents actually are. Here in the west, we think the individual surpasses the group. So oftentimes our parents will position us. It's kind of like you're playing a game of chess. We're like they put your king in check, and then you have to move. You can't fight back against it because your king is treatened. You just have to move it.