In this episode, Inky an Oak discuss gender roles, results versus outcomes, deconstructing thoughts and the power of healing. Both men also breakdown why valuing your priorities with intense consistency is a game changer. 2:30 - Put down things so that others can pick it up. “You can either waste what God has given you or lose it.” The outcome you live in depends on the power of choice. 6:01 - What are three things that a woman has taught you from their intelligence?12:25- The breakdown and discussion of gender roles. 29:40 - Construcying and deconstructing what you’ve been taught. At early ages we cannot control what we receive, but as we grow into an adult, we have the ability to decipher and learn what’s right and wrong. Oak proposes the term of love roles instead of gender roles 33:20 - Your advantage can become a disadvantage if you don’t deconstruct your thought process an actions. Immerse yourself in the process to deconstruct a mentality, for it can take time to do so. Remember what once served you before can no longer do so once growth occurs. That goes for people an environments. 37:05 - Is there anything in your past that you’re currently running from. Failure to heal from past can ruin what you’re trying to obtain in front of you. It can distort thought processes which control the actions. 46:15 - Are you emotionally incarcerated? Do you find yourself grieving (mad, irritated) in actions towards others who don’t deserve it? 52:35 - Would you rather be a winner or be great?Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

THE PROCESS:

TRUST IT.

RESPECT IT.

EMBRACE IT.