"I have so many questions. Why are we always making things more exactly like why it used to be?" she asks. "If all the people were like, actually, I just want to do the basics, then we'd free up all this." The question should not be, can you pull it together to get it done? Can you make it happen? That is not the question. It's a good barometer. If you don't want to do it today, you're not going to wants to do it four months from now," he says. 'It's tied to joyful connection and experience'