The Intention Behind What We're Doing Is Problematic

This is a classic example of where we can do what, for all intents and purposes, might be a good thing. In those instances we're expressi o condolences because we don't want people to think we're somebody who doesn't express condolences. Is that the right reason, though, to do something? We're doing something because it's what is expected of us, not because it's actually what we want to do. So if this is you ried, you need to start connecting with your wy. Plenty of people do the same things that you do, but they do them for different wis. They do them for more authentic reasons.