The Importance of Being a Monk

He was a quite non dual teacher in many ways. He would talk about stepping out of good and bad, of resting in the pure, loving awareness that's your true nature. But then on certain days, he would say being a monk is better than being a lay person or to monks, women will be your downfall. Is this the same dude who's giving these beautiful non dual teachings? What is this about? Yes. Give me that question.