Let Your Partner Influence You

John goman has this theory, i think i've talked about it before, that a relationship is a series of bidding to connect with your partner. And so an example they use n the book is like, i genes the bird watching me. No, you can't. You probably use at seven to half ine other a. The idea is that your partner says like, come look at this funny thing, and you're like, no, i don't care about your funny thing. That's rejecting a connection that they're bidding for. So it's important, ntill i take their opinion into account. We allow each other to influence yet, i use natural teodos