"No one understands a hundred percent what is going on because you can't see all the different perspectives at the same time Right, so I don't have an action item from this chapter, but it did challenge me basically What you see is never all there is and the skill to develop here is to get good at perspective taking," he said. "I want to be able to see things from other people's point of view which step one is Just assuming that people are not lying to you if they tell you something that doesn't make sense right"? He added: "I've noticed lately I've been getting annoyed with people that I see falling into this like well, it's not my experience