High Maintenance Orgasmor?

I really love when my partner like tells me to come for her, but she knows only to say it when I'm like in the middle of coming. When you are like literally there, I'm like, I'm on the precipice is like some and some is like come for me. You're not like, come for me before I'm coming for you. Truly. This needs to be very tailored. High maintenance orgasmor? Is that a thing? Or orgasmor?"