#95: 3 Essential Ingredients to Make a Relationship Work
On Attachment
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The Role of Capacity in Relationships
You are allowed to decide that's too much for me. That's not your role and there's no expectation that you should do that. So it is something that you have to make a call on but recognising that even when someone really, really feels bad or is genuinely very apologetic,. they may not have the capacity to override their protective patterns when they feel threatened. And you may or may not want to stick that one out. Again, so many variables, so I can't give you some sort of formula on if this, then that, if this thing happens, then you should stick it out. Whereas if there's this sign, you should not.
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