Why Spark Fades in Long Relationships

This has been a conversation I’ve been eagerly looking forward to sharing with you for weeks...

It is arguably the most important discussion I've published to date on the subject of leading your relationships and sustaining the fire within them.

I have the great honor to be inviting Justin Patrick Pierce back on the podcast, this time alongside his wife, Londin Angel Winters.

The first podcast I recorded with Justin quickly became the most downloaded episode of the show and, as I see it, served as a powerful declaration of the importance for us as men to bring awareness to how we are showing up in our intimate relationships and how we can sustain desire over the long run

Today’s episode continues that conversation and goes even deeper into one essential question:

• What does it take to sustain depth, intimacy, and fire in a long-term, committed monogamous relationship?

Before coming together for this conversation, I took time to reflect on the subject of desire, which can still feel somehwhat elusive and complex. Up until a few years ago, I myself couldn’t articulate what truly awakened my desire for someone—or what repelled it. I was also unaware of what creates the "neutrality" so many couples find themselves in over time.

For the sake of providing answers on the subject of what creates neutrality and how we can be liberated in our desires, I have structured our conversation together around the framework used by Justin and Londin in their most recent book, Playing with Fire

The episode today will be a continuation of my first conversation with Justin, so if you're unfamiliar with teachings of polarity, their book Playing with Fire, or their use of terms like “Alpha,” “Omega,” “Seer,” and “Feeler,” my encouragement is to listen to my first conversation with Justin as it lays a strong foundation for these teachings and the ideas we explore today.

In the realm of polarity, sacred intimacy, and welcoming relationships as a ground for spiritual growth, I hold few individuals in higher regard than Justin and Londin.

Together, they lead a business, write, teach, and live as householders, while also raising their daughter, Eva, and remaining committed to sustaining the fire of their relationship—16 years strong.

My deepest hope is that this conversation leaves you with a clearer understanding of the foundational pillars that make relationships thrive, along with tools to support your own journey of love and intimacy.

Connect with Justin Patrick Pierce:

Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/⁠

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/?hl=de

Connect with Londin Angel Winters:

Website: https://www.londinangelwinters.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/londinawinters/?hl=en

Read Justin's & Londin's widely acclaimed co-authored book "Playing with Fire": https://a.co/d/0g8ovHdB

Read Justin's & Londin's widely acclaimed co-authored book "The Awakened Woman's Guide to Everlasting Love": https://a.co/d/0fGmJZAA

Join their Live Online Group Calls: https://www.patreon.com/c/yogaofintimacy

Check out "Yoga of Intimacy": https://yogaofintimacy.co/

Connect with Alex Lehmann:

Website: https://www.alexlehmann.co/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexlehmann_/?hl=en

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@HeartofManPodcast/featured

Listen to this conversation on Apple Podcasts and leave a review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heart-of-man/id1697289478

Email: [email protected]

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