Queerness in the Gospel

I think that in the church especially people who are opposite sex attracted and choose a path of marriage sometimes have it, but sometimes have it in some ways really easy because they don't think. They like, I sin in the Adam and Eve paradigm. Therefore I don't have to check any of my morality. And that is so dangerous where that eros. Even that eros needs to be crucified and reborn and resurrected. Or else you can't actually have a marriage that fulfills the vocation of marriage. Marriage is meant to be this beautiful mutual submission. It literally starts in a way, cement to one another. And women need to also die to their misaligned eros which