i think there is an inordinate amount of pressure. Some people will hand down certain traditions that are, where you go to church. But man, sometimes church choice becomes this tradition thing and if your kids pick a different church, well, they're going to hell in a hand basket. And just think, i' failed in the father cause i didn't reproduce a faithful fillin the blank.
As dads, we are the steward of our children, but it's God who owns them at the end of the day. We must serve our kids and give them every chance to know God and love Him; after that, it's up to them. We just have to let God direct their adult life and not connect our success as fathers to "their success." Whatever they get into, whether music, cars, or something we know nothing about, all we gotta do is be there when they need us the most. The rest can be left up to the Lord.