Getting Started With Mimetic Desire

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Luke: Take one sheet of paper and name ten people that influence what you want. These are external models of desire, these are people outside of your world. The other half of the paper is internal models of desire; they're people in your world. They could be friends, family colleagues, or even on social media. luke: You can exercise your agency and decide if you want to lean into those desires or not. And there's a whole section on tactics here that you can kind of go through.

As the author of "Wanting: The Power of Mimetic Desire in Everyday Life," Luke has spent plenty of time and energy researching the power of desire. I absolutely loved getting into the book and wanted to spend some time getting into the nuts and bolts with Luke about why "wanting" has so much power... and what to do with that power.

We unpacked a lot during our discussion – from impostor syndrome to needs and wants becoming one and the same (or appearing to be) to attempting to avoid choosing the wrong things to desire. I learned a lot from this conversation, making it incredibly productive.

I trust you'll learn a lot, too.

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Connect with Luke: Website | Twitter | Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn
Luke's Book: Wanting: The Power of Mimetic Desire in Everyday Life
Luke and I both use the Monk Manual: Get 10% off one here with the code TIMECRAFTING
I also use this journaling app: Reflection
Luke chatting with Ryan Holiday: The Daily Stoic Podcast
Related Conversation: Episode 189 of A Productive Conversation
Related Blog Post: The Priority

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