The voice in our heads can speak at a rate of 4,000 words per minute. Rufus Griskam asked his team to record their inner monologues for an episode about the voices in people's heads. The first person kind enough to share her inner voice was our director of member happiness,. It record on a voice memo as she lay by a pool in Guatemala where she lives. There would be one more clip I want to play for you that comes from Milo, our senior editor who recorded himself while taking his family dog for a walk in Florida.
Whether or not we care to admit it, we all talk to ourselves. A lot. The voice in our heads yaks it up about half the time we’re awake, and it can speak at a rate of 4,000 words per minute. When it really gets going like that, not everything it says is particularly helpful. We’ve all gotten stuck dwelling on the past, worrying about the future, or standing idly by as our inner monologue devolves from introspection into negativity. Experimental psychologist Ethan Kross calls those moments chatter. “When the inner voice runs amok and chatter takes the mental microphone,” he writes, “our mind not only torments but paralyzes us.” Luckily, there are tools we can use to take back the mic, and in this episode, Ethan talks Rufus through them.